Monday, June 10, 2013

Homosexual Marriage is Not Equal to Heterosexual Marriage



Introduction

     I want to begin by saying that this is not a hate speech. I do not hate gay people or even dislike people for being gay. I do not try to look down on or hate anyone. But, this does not mean that I just go around agreeing with everything that everybody says.
“…this is not a hate speech. I do not hate gay people or even dislike people for being gay.”
    In various media, disagreeing with gay rights or speaking against gay marriage has been portrayed in a negative light. If someone speaks against homosexual marriage, that person is usually labeled a narrow-minded religious person, homophobe, or uneducated. A person who opposes homosexual marriage is usually viewed as some sort of illogical bigot or an oppressor of a minority group that wants equal rights. To argue against these perceptions, I will start off by asking: Is believing that homosexual marriage is wrong really illogical?
Opposing Homosexual Marriage is not Illogical
     Certain facts make the belief that homosexual marriage is wrong not seem so selfish or incapable of being understood. One fact is that every human being that exists or has ever existed was developed from a heterosexual relationship. Another fact is that the genitals of males and females are designed for each other. Genitals only collaborate between the opposite sexes. This is the only sexual collaboration that is capable of reproduction. These facts seem to definitely support the belief that heterosexual marriage is right and homosexual marriage is wrong. These facts also show that homosexual marriage is not equal to heterosexual marriage. This is not a new argument against homosexual marriage, but, for some reason, the use of this argument against homosexual marriage may now be portrayed as “uneducated” or “lazy.” Today, someone may accuse you of merely assuming things and not researching all of the “facts."

“Genitals only collaborate between the opposite sexes. This is the only sexual collaboration that is capable of reproduction.”
     In the study of logic, researchers analyze arguments to determine if they are logical or illogical. Some supporters of homosexual marriage attempt to use this type of logic to make my argument against homosexual marriage sound illogical. To show how this is done, I will present my argument in a form that can be analyzed by researchers of logic or logicians.
     Statement 1 -- Heterosexual marriage is capable of reproduction.
     Statement 2 -- Homosexual marriage is not capable of reproduction.
     Conclusion -- Therefore, homosexual marriage is wrong.
This argument would be labeled invalid because of my conclusion that something is wrong. According to the rules of this type of logic, I cannot conclude that homosexual marriage is wrong from my first two statements. The first two statements did not mention anything about something being wrong. I only stated facts about the reproductive capabilities of these types of marriages. So, basically, this type of logic tells me that homosexual marriage’s incapability of reproduction does not determine if it is wrong. This means that my argument would be considered illogical.
     If this argument can be considered unreasonable and incorrect, then this next argument can also be considered unreasonable and incorrect.
     Statement 1 -- Sexual intercourse between two dogs can create offspring.
     Statement 2 -- Sexual intercourse between a dog and a cat cannot create offspring.
     Conclusion -- Therefore, sexual intercourse between a dog and a cat is wrong.
The structure of this argument is identical to my first argument and would also be labeled invalid. But most people would probably not consider someone to be an illogical bigot or oppressor of animals if he or she says publicly that dogs are not supposed to have sex with cats. Someone may argue that I don’t have any proof that sex between a cat and a dog is wrong. If that is the case, I guess I don’t have any proof that sex between humans and animals is wrong. This example shows you the limits of this type of logic. It can’t even prove that sex between different species is wrong. It doesn’t seem capable of proving that anything is morally wrong or right. Not even the killing of innocent people.
     Statement 1 – Killing innocent people can create more pain.
     Statement 2 – Saving innocent people can create more love.
     Conclusion – Killing innocent people is wrong.   

Again, this argument would be labeled invalid. Argument of what is right or wrong seems too complex for this type of logic. Argument of what is right or wrong is based on beliefs. This type of logic does not appear to prove or disprove certain beliefs. Here are some examples of the beliefs I am talking about.
     God is good – Belief
     There is no God – Belief
     Gay marriage is equal to straight marriage – Belief
     Kids deserve a good education – Belief
     You don’t have the right to speak about these people – Belief
     We all deserve freedom – Belief
     People should care for each other – Belief
     The study of logic is superior to religious beliefs – Belief

Whether supporters of homosexual marriage admit it or not, argument for the approval or disapproval of homosexual marriage is an argument of beliefs about what is right or wrong. Supporters of homosexual marriage say it is wrong for religious people to impose their “personal” beliefs on people while the imposing of “personal” beliefs that promote homosexual marriage is abundant through today’s media. This has me wondering: Why is the study of logic being used to “put down” beliefs in an argument of what is right or wrong. The study of logic seems capable of labeling most of society’s beliefs invalid. This type of logic can also “put down” beliefs that are used to support homosexual marriage.

“Whether supporters of homosexual marriage admit it or not, argument for the approval or disapproval of homosexual marriage is an argument of beliefs about what is right or wrong.”
          I decided to research the information that is considered to be supportive of homosexual marriage and homosexuality. I decided to research information on people who are considered to be pseudohermaphrodites or intersex, a term used for “various conditions in which a person is born with a reproductive or sexual anatomy that doesn’t seem to fit the typical definitions of female or male” (“What is intersex?”). This appears to be the information that various media considers to be “the facts.” I argue that these “facts” are not as logical or “more down to earth” as the media and other supporters of homosexual marriage try to make it seem.

“…religious people, opposers of homosexual marriage, or “illogical bigots” are not the only people who are assuming things.”
     From reading the Intersex Society of North America’s (ISNA) web pages, I have gathered that the conditions that are considered to be intersex are rare, intersex is not easily determined or defined, and doctors’ opinions of what should count as intersex vary substantially. Supporters of homosexual marriage seem to use this research on sexual ambiguity to suggest that homosexuality is a “natural” and equal alternative to heterosexuality. I decided to use information from the ISNA website to present this argument in a form that can be analyzed.
     Statement 1 – Some people have unfamiliar-looking genitals.
     Statement 2 – Some people have familiar-looking genitals.
     Conclusion -- Therefore, Some people are “naturally” homosexual.
Similar to the previous arguments I presented, this argument would also be labeled invalid. The first two statements do not mention anything about anyone being “naturally” homosexual. This seems to show that religious people, opposers of homosexual marriage, or “illogical bigots” are not the only people who are assuming things. Someone may argue that these facts about the study of intersex are more tangible and “down to earth,” but I disagree. The facts that are used to oppose homosexual marriage are more clear and definite. Researchers of intersex have labeled certain people’s genders “difficult to determine” and claim that some people have the internal sex organs of the opposite sex. An example would be a man who has male genitals on the outside and female genitals on the inside. This information does not appear to be clear and concrete. These researchers seem to be making assumptions about external genitals, internal genitals, and chromosomes that look unfamiliar to them. Also, none of this information is true evidence for anyone who reads it. A person would have to perform his or her own direct research on intersex to determine if this information was true or accurate. Whether this information is accurate or not, the clear and definite fact that genitals only collaborate between males and females still exists. The collaboration of genitals appears to be the main physical function of sex. This is why reproduction can only result from male and female relationships. The fact that homosexual marriage is not equal to heterosexual marriage can be concluded from a clear and tangible analysis of human anatomy. Belief that homosexual marriage is wrong is not uneducated, lazy, or illogical. It isn’t bigotry either.

“The fact that homosexual marriage is not equal to heterosexual marriage can be concluded from a clear and tangible analysis of human anatomy.”
      It seems that the beliefs of opposers of homosexual marriage have been labeled false and close-minded by the media. Religious beliefs have been pushed aside and labeled thoughtless and dogmatic. We may admit that our religious beliefs are based on faith, but I actually believe that religious beliefs are understandable and that my faith and beliefs do not blind me from the real truth. Also, people have believed that homosexuality was wrong before they discovered the Lord’s disapproval of homosexuality in the Bible. When I look at the world around me, I am not afraid to analyze it, make assumptions, and discover facts. Knowledge is not something that I hide from. I am not trying to be afraid of believing and speaking what I truly believe. I do not just want to conform to whatever is currently popular and safe.

Gay is the new Black?
     For some years now, a term has traveled and been expressed through media such as talk shows, radio shows, and websites. This term is that “Gay is the new Black.” This term can be very offensive. Some people use this term to suggest that the argument for gay rights is equal to the past argument for the freedom of Blacks from slavery and the continuing argument for the fair treatment of all races. These arguments are not equal. It is clear that slavery was wrong and unfair. It is clear that racial inequality is unfair. It is not clear that homosexuality is right and that homosexual marriage should be approved. It is true that people have hated, harmed, and killed people who identified themselves as gay. These hateful and harmful acts are wrong like the hateful and harmful acts that were committed against Blacks, but the Gay Rights and Civil Rights movements still differ. An opposer of homosexual marriage does not have to be hateful, selfish, or condescending. Oppressors of black people wanted to keep Blacks down and use them for profit. When Blacks were freed, oppressors wanted to keep them down to prevent the threat of job competition. Many oppressors also just wanted to feel superior to black people and “look down” on them. An opposer of homosexual marriage can honestly disagree with the Gay Rights Movement’s arguments and beliefs without hate, fear, or a “superiority complex."


“The promotion of homosexual marriage is not an argument for equal rights.”
     The Gay Rights Movement is different from the Civil Rights Movement because it is attempting to achieve a different goal. The promotion of homosexual marriage is not an argument for equal rights. No group has had more or less legal rights to marry a person of the same sex than another group. The promotion of homosexual marriage is an argument for a new right. They are attempting to have people believe that homosexual marriage should be a right. To argue that Gay Rights is seeking equal rights, supporters of homosexual marriage promote a belief. This is the belief that certain people are “naturally” limited to being homosexual. But everyone does not believe that only certain people are capable of being homosexual. Sorry for the “Bible thumping” that everyone seems to dislike, but the Bible does not even tell you that some people are not capable of performing homosexual acts. The Bible tells you that homosexuality is wrong. The Gay Rights movement is promoting their beliefs and the approval of a new right.
Should Gay Marriage be a Right?
     This leaves two questions: Should homosexual marriage be a right and should people adopt the beliefs promoted by the Gay Rights Movement? I’m not sure if I can “prove” to you that homosexuality is not a condition that is naturally-limited to a few, but I assume that many people who consider themselves gay have had no signs of being intersex, have honestly considered themselves to be straight before, have been with the opposite sex sexually, and/or are genetically and physically able to reproduce with members of the opposite sex. Next, to deal with the question of homosexual marriage becoming a right, I want to point out a fact about the history of marriage. Various media has attempted to convince people that views and beliefs about marriage were very different in the past, but certain beliefs about marriage have lasted since the beginning.  Marriage was based on the belief that it involved relationships between men and women. If it was a group marriage, men and women were involved. If it was an economically strategic marriage for profit and status, young boys were arranged with young girls. If it was a tribal marriage, men may have had various women. Some articles on the history of marriage seem to imply that there was a time when sexual morality was not involved with marriage. This does not appear to be true. Marriage seems to have always been constructed with some beliefs, morals, and focus on the preservation of families and humans. The truth is that heterosexual relationships are suitable for marriage. Heterosexual relationships create families of human beings. Every human being that exists today has been created by a heterosexual merger. Even if some heterosexual relationships are not capable of reproduction, the partners still have the collaborating sexual parts. Male and female partners can perform the main physical function of sex. This shows that men and women were made for each other and that collaboration between a man and a woman defines a marriage.

“Every human being that exists today has been created by a heterosexual merger.”
A Misleading Agenda
          Before ending this speech, I want to further point out some of the misleading tendencies that are found in promotions of homosexual marriage and homosexuality. The negative portrayal of people who are against homosexual marriage has not only appeared in today’s media. It has also appeared on our college campuses. In recent years at some college universities, many students have been required to take a mandatory sexual assault prevention test on their university’s website. Towards the end of this mandatory test, students are taught to accept and believe the beliefs of the LBGT community. During the numerous videos of this test, they mainly portrayed three main student characters. There was the “educated” woman, the “educated” gay person, and the dumb and confused jock football player. The jock football player was portrayed as the ignorant guy that just needed a little “guidance.” So the woman and gay person corrected the dumb jock’s obviously silly and stereotypical statements with their “accepted” stereotypical statements. A good example of most of their conversation is when the dumb jock asked the gay person if people who were against homosexuality were actually just insecure about their own sexuality. The gay person responded yes and said that most people who are against homosexuality are homophobic. This test seems to show how smart some people think college students are and that this video was more about brainwashing and conformity than voicing real opinions and facing arguments. It is not a fact that every person who is against homosexuality is “homophobic.” I do not think that people have to constantly live in fear of becoming homosexual, but, at the same time, I can understand a person’s choice to be on guard. If a person believes that homosexuality is wrong and understands that it is possible for people to become homosexual, it makes sense that they would be on guard and establish a sense of awareness. People have argued against “heterosexist” perceptions of sex by saying that “sex is complex.” But should our awareness of the complexity of sex cause us to become careless? Should we believe that there is no wrong or right involved with sex? The past and present has showed us that sex can be abused.

"Should we believe that there is no wrong or right involved with sex?"
Conclusion
     Today, if you believe that homosexual marriage is wrong, someone may call you selfish and, then, tell you that you shouldn’t care. Someone may tell you to not put your beliefs on everyone else and, then, tell you to conform to whatever they want you to believe. Someone may tell you to not be “close-minded” and, then, call you homophobic. Someone may tell you that you’re assumptions are “unrealistic” when their “facts” are ambiguous.
     As I mentioned in the beginning, this is not a hate speech. I do not hate people for being gay or supporting gay rights. I do disagree with their argument, disagree with their beliefs, and dislike how they label opposers of homosexual marriage falsely and negatively. Homosexual marriage is not equal to heterosexual marriage. Homosexual partners do not have collaborating genitals and cannot create offspring. Heterosexual partners can perform the main physical function of sex and create offspring. These facts show that men and woman are made for each other. The incapability of reproduction in some heterosexual relationships does not suggest that any relationship that is incapable of reproduction is suitable for marriage. Heterosexual relationships are suitable for marriage because they involve a man and a woman who are husband and wife. Analysis of humans supports this belief. Are people really going to pretend that this is merely a narrow-minded belief? Marriage is not a mere image or status. Marriage appears to be a response to the collaboration of a male and female. Marriage was created for men and women. Do we want to promote a false argument that people attempt to support with false and unclear facts? Do you really want kids and the generations after them to grow up in a society that tries to tell them that homosexuality is equal to heterosexuality?
Why is this speech anonymous?
     When I first created this speech, my name was included. I decided to remove my name because of my family’s concerns. My family was worried about me being labeled negatively by people and the media. They figured that this speech may hurt my reputation when searching for jobs. This shows the environment that is present and possibly being expanded in America. The false and negative labeling of opposers of gay marriage is promoting mere conformity. This was shown through the gay controversy that the Chick-Fil-A restaurant was involved in. The chief operating officer of Chick-Fil-A announced his religious beliefs and opposition towards homosexual marriage and supporters of homosexual marriage decided to protest the restaurant. Why would supporters of homosexual marriage protest a person or group for their honest beliefs? The chief operating officer’s statements did not show any hate. The statements showed disagreement and opposition towards the Gay Rights Movement. Instead of arguing against these statements, supporters of homosexual marriage protested as if they were already in the right. I thought that a free society was supposed analyze opposing arguments and come up with honest solutions, not merely conform to opinions that seem “popular.”
Cited References
“What is intersex?” Intersex Society of North America. Web. 25 Mar. 2013.
Created Term
Main physical function of sex – the collaboration of male and female genitals
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